8

I was to water her orchid. Never before had I cared for one. There’s an aggressive tenderness to the nature of the plant, to her behavior. Her needs need to be anticipated.

I watered her as instructed. I undressed her from her ceramic and released her, exposed, into a shallow pool of tap water. The duration, I don’t remember. “More than four hours”, I was told, was enough. “More than four hours, less than a day.” I did what I was told.

I drained the excess into the metal sink where I wash the dishes and pour cold coffee. I waited for her. That is how it works with the orchids. You wait. Used and unused, standing in a dance without movement.

Carefully, I redressed her, and nature blew a contemptuous breath that fell a flower, symmetric, stem intact. And I watched her abruptness sit me flat in my flawed attachment to meaning.

Because she can.

on a name

I was supposed to be named Rochelle. “Little rock.” Instead, Shantai. The sounds don’t come out right for most people. I learned early on to answer to shh. I answer to accidents and false starts.

I got a name of indecision, one with two paths: Chanter and Shanti, to sing and peace,

to sing in peace

and it’s spelt wrong for both. Makes sense; it wasn’t planned. Shantai was a lyrical suggestion from the lips of a stranger on the day before the night I left the womb.


My name is lonely. No keychains or mugs or fake license plates at roadside gift shops. Nothing that smiles back and says, “You’re not the only one. There are others like you.” She’s not a Susan, or an Anthony, or even an Angela. She’s a, “I don’t know how to spell that.” Or a, “Enchantée Shantai, c’est rigolo!”


Once, I met my name’s homonym. It was on Halloween when everyone pretends to be what they aren’t or shows who they truly are. I was seven, maybe eight, and it was the early evening. The moon’s light and the gold of streetlamps must’ve made everything a blue green over grey because that’s the color of this memory.

I was drowning in my mother’s sky blue nursing scrubs with her stethoscope hooked around my neck, bandaged up in other people’s expectations and fallen ambitions.

At the trick-or-treating spot off White Plains Road, I opened the front passenger door of the minivan and watched my brothers tumble out onto the sidewalk, checkered smiles of growing teeth glowing in the night with high-pitched squeals escaping through the gaps. Somewhere during their loud tumble towards a night of sweets and future gum disease, I heard my name. The voice was new to me.

I turned and looked anyway because like any dog—I mean, child—I had been trained to look when spoken to, to answer when called. And for the first time, my name wasn’t mine. Shantai was another girl, with hair pressed and curled into a sea of Shirley Temples. She and her friends had no chaperone. She was too big for that. She was a blue princess.

dimmed on names

I called him Dimitri. His name was Dmytro. His father called him Misha. “I love the name Misha!” The left side of his lips pursed together and peaked upward in a forced side smile and incisors peeked out to a grimace. “I don’t like that name.” He tried to be polite and looked into my eyes. “My father used to call me that.” Dimitri’s father used to beat Misha with his fists whenever he didn’t have enough drink to lull him to sleep. Two weeks after deciding that Dimitri was too much to be with, I forgot his name. Almost half a year later his name resurrected itself in my consciousness. I thought I pulled him from the roots.

Dmytro, I forgot that I could remember you.

dee…dee…deemeetri, dimitri. yes, that was his name. i forgot it entirely. when again did we break up? i probably shouldn’t use the term ‘break up’. that implies some type of discussion took place. not. i just stopped texting him. i don’t know how he felt. i didn’t care. i just remember how exhausting it was to be around him. the thought of seeing his face, of being in his presence, of hearing his voice overwhelmed me. the air around him always felt thick. it would’ve been too hard to breathe.

Heat brews in my chest. It burns a smoke that grates against my inside. My hand hurts. I’ve been holding the pen too tight, like a fist. It aches to open and let go.

Dimitri,

I break you in parts and serve you upon blank sheets of paper to faceless readers I hope will chew, digest, spit.

I remember our first time alone together. You took me in your arms and rocked me like a mother does her newborn, with a type of shaky anxiety. You thought I was younger than I was and I made you laugh, and you said to me, “Doesn’t it feel good to be held.” I didn’t answer because I didn’t think you were talking to me.

we had moments

where his eyes fed me

and they were wet

and expanded.

I threw you away, and you came back rotted, holes, pieces falling apart and dangling from thinning tendons. Too choppy, these memories.

I don’t know what to do with this.